Like Robmarie says, trust and respect work hand in hand. That not only applies with her relationship with her boyfriend, but also her indirect relationship with that girl.

And while I’m not justifying cheating, there are plenty of people who cheat when they normally wouldn’t otherwise be encouraged to because they’re thrusted into situations that they don’t know how to handle and tensions get high. Yes, it’s not right to do anything even in that kind of situation, but you’re also in the wrong if you don’t at least try to prevent those situations from getting anywhere close to that point.

Yeah its not cool, but its also NOT cool that his gf doesn’t trust him enough. And if he cheats.. well then he was going to do it sometime and you’d rather find that out about your partner now rather than later… of course if he cheats, he’s probably a liar too.

Trust requires respect — and he isn’t showing much respect for her concerns or for their relationship. I think lines have to be drawn somewhere. It’s pretty damn ballsy of him to have a hot friend STAY at HIS PLACE for an entire WEEK, and not expect her to properly freak out.

What about this other girl — Couldn’t he help her look for better accomodations? I’d grudgingly concede him a weekend — but a WEEK?? A WEEK? That’s just insane. He might not do anything physically with this person (he’ll probably just masturbate to that…), but the very fact that they’re friends implies there’s already some levels of intimacy there. It’s hard for the thought not to come up, especially under the circumstances.

Again, it’s hard to trust someone when they’re not showing you much respect.

GF is definitely justified and dude should really be considerate of her feelings and stop being so oblivious to the actual situation!

I wouldn’t be happy with it. I’ve had quite a big and still have quite a bit to deal with my boyfriend being in contact with his ex’s. It’s not fun.